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Hide and seek

September 12, 2011

Bub has really got into hide and seek recently. He loves to hide in the living room, ducking behind the curtain or behind the table. You can often spot him, face full of glee, as he waits to jump out and surprise us. He clearly thinks he’s the cleverest person in the world to do such an audacious thing.

He also now does that super cute baby/toddler thing of hiding behind his hands. He puts them both over his eyes, waits, then pulls them back triumphantly. Often you’ll spot one eye peeking out as he can’t help but spy on us as we search for him.

Eighteen months

July 26, 2011

Eighteen months ago my little Bub was born….

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Life instantly changed.

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And now look at him. From baby to little boy.

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Amazing!

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Happy one and a half birthday Bub!

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New year, new look!

January 24, 2011

Have decided to ring the changes by changing the look and feel of this blog a bit. When I first started I wasn’t sure really what I’d be writing about and it’s been a pretty broad brush – everything from politics to knitting, baby care to new mum style. Whilst this can be a good thing it also means that the blog has no focus, no usp. And having visited many blogs now the ones that seem to be most interesting and that I’m most likely to go back to are all unique in one way or another. It could be that the writer has a fascinating life, an incredible wit, creative flair, a great ability to tell stories, or another defining feature. Whatever the reason, all of these blogs work because they have a bit of focus. So enough of Jenmum’s Adventures in Parenting. And welcome to…

Don’t wake the baby!

Sleep, or the lack of it, has been the main theme running through my first year of life with Bub. We’ve struggled so much, read so much and tried so many approaches that I sometimes feel I deserve an A-level in baby sleep (probably at grade F – good effort but must try harder…) But anyway, we’ve had some successes and some setbacks and I’ve enjoyed sharing them on this blog. And we’re definitely not there yet. So I think the new name suits this blog well.

I won’t just be writing about baby sleep though. That would be pretty tedious. I’ll still be sharing other bits of my life with Bub, and dealing with the new challenges of having gone back to work. But to focus things I’ll probably be holding back on anything away from parenting. Whilst I love to read blogs on style, politics, yoga etc I’m going to resist writing about them here.

Out with the old...

... and in with the new

Let me know what you think of the new look and feel. Anything you’d like me to write about? What would encourage you to come back again?

Testing

January 23, 2011

Life as a new mum, seen through a slightly sleep deprived prism. Currently trying to balance being back at work with spending time with my gorgeous one year old son.

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SpeedChoice – not such a bad choice after all

January 8, 2011

Bub is a very careful driver

I was caught speeding a couple of months back in a 30mph zone. Wasn’t really concentrating and was rushing, usual story. To be honest I’ve become a bit cavalier in my driving, certainly not as careful as I was in the early days.

I was fortunate enough to be offered the opportunity to attend a Speed Choice speed awareness course, rather than get points on my license. So of course I said yes (who wouldn’t??) The course took place yesterday and was a really interesting experience. I’d not exactly been looking forward to it – after all who wants to spend three hours with other ‘offenders’ being lectured on your poor driving? However in reality it wasn’t anything like as bad as I’d expected.

Those leading the course were good speakers and the course content was thankfully not patronising or condescending. The people attending were from all walks of life and were a real mixed bunch, which again made it quite interesting. I’d thought that it might contain lots of horrific information on the impact of crashes, but actually they were very sensitive about this and weren’t out to shame or guilt trip us (well, not too much!) There were some really interesting facts I picked up which did make me pause for thought. For instance knowing that going just a few mph quicker makes a disproportionately big impact on the outcome of any collision. Or that British drivers have a one in 200 chance of being killed in a road crash. However it was mainly the opportunity to consider my driving, and to reflect on how much slacker I’ve become, that I found invaluable. I’m definitely going to try to amend my bad habits, not just on speeding but on other aspects of driving and concentration. To my shame when I was caught speeding I had Bub in the back of the car and the thought of anything happening, especially to him, is just awful. And for it to happen because of any negligence on my part would be even worse.

I’ve previously been pretty sceptical of this kind of thing and thought they were meaningless. The same goes for the driving Theory Test which I had to take when learning to drive. However I was pretty shocked today when we discussed speed limits. Very basic information about the national speed limit and what it is in a built up area, single carriageway, dual carriageway and motorway. I learned this information for my driving test and use it daily when I drive. But at least 50% of the people on the course didn’t know. They didn’t know basic speed limit information!!?! Now that is shocking to me. Now these are people who had been caught speeding in a 30mph zone so perhaps a slightly skewed sample. But this still implies that there must be thousands of drivers out there unaware of the basics. The absolute basics! So now I’m totally converted to the Theory Test (which I suspect the majority on the course hadn’t had to take) and to these awareness courses too. Clearly there are many out there who need a reminder of this information and many too like me who need to be reminded to use it!

If you have stumbled upon this page because you have been asked to come to one of these sessions I hope this has reassured you that it’s nothing to worry about. It’s pretty interesting actually. And it might perhaps be a lifesaver. And if you’ve been on one and want to share your thoughts in the comments, please do!

How did this blog do in 2010

January 2, 2011

Some stats from WordPress:

Crunchy numbers

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A Boeing 747-400 passenger jet can hold 416 passengers. This blog was viewed about 1,700 times in 2010. That’s about 4 full 747s.

In 2010, there were 52 new posts, not bad for the first year! There were 76 pictures uploaded,
taking up a total of 13mb. That’s about 1 pictures per week.

The busiest day of the year was October
4th with 163 views. The most popular post that day was Tories hit Child Benefit – and pensions.

Where did they come from?

The top referring sites in 2010 were
twitter.com, en.wordpress.com, mummyslittlemonkey.blogspot.com, britishmummybloggers.ning.com, and thapunkprincess.livejournal.com.

Some visitors came searching, mostly for jenmum, baby driving, some sugar, bebes kniting, and baby boy free pattern 3 months.

Attractions in 2010

These are the posts and pages that got the most views in 2010.

1

Tories hit Child Benefit – and pensions October 2010
5 comments

2

Our home birth story June 2010
7 comments and 1 Like on WordPress.com,

3

Crying. Sleeping. Sadness. October 2010
10 comments

4

Baby led weaning – first tastes July
2010

6 comments and 1 Like on WordPress.com,

5

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2010

Note from Jenmum

The contents of this post was generated by WordPress. Not sure that the picture of George Osbourne really sums up the content of this blog, but hey ho! Thanks to all my visitors in 2010 and especially those who took the time to comment.

Next baby competition – Bub gets his cute face on!!

October 23, 2010

Like a sucker I’ve entered a baby competition! Wouldn’t normally do this kind of thing but hey, everyone thinks their baby is the cutest ever, so I couldn’t resist.

It’s also an excuse to include yet another picture of my lovely little boy on this blog.

If you’d like to cast your vote for Bub please do so here.

Teething? Here, have some sugar….

September 20, 2010

Poor Bub was a bit upset last night which we think might be the onset of teething. His Daddy had drawn the short straw and was on bedtime duty so he bore the brunt of it. We’d not really discussed teething remedies so he was a bit surprised when I thrust a homeopathic teething remedy sachet at him and instructed him to tip it into Bub’s mouth. Like a trouper he did as instructed but as he is instinctively distrustful of homeopathic remedies I knew this wouldn’t be the last I’d hear of it.

Once Bub was asleep we discussed these remedies and whether they were something we’d like to use. We’re both pretty scientific types and so homeopathy isn’t our usual approach. I’m pretty pragmatic though and given the anecdotal stories of success with these sachets I was willing to give them a try. He was more suspicious and felt it was ridiculous to think that the one part per trillion of camomilla in the sachets was making any difference at all.

So, armed with his trusty sidekick Google, he sought to look into these sachets, whether they can actually help with teething pain, and if so why.

In searching the web we found lots of blog posts praising these sachets and comparing the brands. But nothing exploring why they may work and whether there are any non-homeopathic alternatives. So I thought it might be worth a small post of my own.

The primary ingredient in the majority of camomilla homeopathic teething remedies is lactose. This is the sugar most commonly found in milk. Some brands contain sucrose instead, which is also a form of sugar. The brand I bought didn’t say it was sugar free but fascinatingly some of the brands do claim this whilst still being primarily lactose.

Sugar (sucrose) solution is commonly used by many doctors as a pain reliever for young babies for minor procedures. To someone highly sceptical of homeopathy like me it seems that this must be why the homeopathic remedies have so many satisfied customers. It’s all just very expensive sugar.

I’ve no problem with the use and promotion of homeopathic remedies for teething. There are clearly many mums who swear by them and it seems there is a pain relieving element to the granules. But how many parents realise that they are giving their children sugar to sooth their teething pain? This may be something they generally seek to avoid, especially at night, not least because of fears around tooth decay. It seems to me that these products are being pretty disengenuous about their contents, particularly those that say they are sugar free.

All this doesn’t mean that we won’t keep using these products. But it does show that you sometimes need to look beyond the front label on the pack – even on seemingly natural and positive products.

Just a technical thing

July 5, 2010

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Introductions etc

June 6, 2010

I remember my youngest sister calling me ‘jenmum’ during some of our games when we were young. My son may develop his own names for me in time but, at four months, I’ve no idea what they may be. So jenmum, and my childhood memory of a three or four year old saying it to me, will have to do for now.

This blog is a new idea for me and I wonder how much I’ll use it. I’m fortunate enough to have a years maternity leave (seven months left and counting…) and I’d love to have a record of it at the end. Not sure if I’ll write about my son, my thoughts on being a mum, parenting ideas or just rail at the latest article in the Daily Mail. We’ll have to see…

So about me. I’m a 32 year old first time mum and live with my partner and son near Bristol. Our son was born at home in Jan 2010 and is the sweetest, smiliest, loveliest boy – I feel totally blessed. I work in the voluntary sector (currently on maternity leave) and am doing a post-grad distance learning course (no maternity leave allowed, sadly.) I like knitting/crochet, chocolate and yoga. I’m into women’s issues, green issues and left/liberal politics.


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